What is said in a privacy of ones' home, has no barrings' on the condition of a persons' knowledge and or pending health, rather it should be classed as a marital issue and what goes on between a husband and wife is just that, regardless of the scholarly position of that person.

Not unless it is a pronounced verdict amongst the Islamic council, and or the voicing of such to the correct judges' who will then pronounce the divorce, of a public disclosure.